Ownership beats oversight.

Ownership beats oversight. Give tools, not lectures.

TL;DR

  • Let them choose the plan.
  • Celebrate streaks, not volume.

Scripture to stand on

  • Proverbs 4:5-7: Get wisdom—invite ownership, not force.

A simple plan

  1. Offer choices
    Like letting them pick the route—two short options (Mark or Proverbs). They pick.
  2. Set a small daily target
    One chapter or 10 verses; they set the reminder time.
  3. Track streaks gently
    High‑five for consistency; no shaming for misses.

Try this now

  • Set up a short, teen‑chosen daily plan and track streaks.
  • Ask what time works for them and set the reminder together.

FAQs

What if they refuse?
Don’t force. Pray, model, and keep the invitation open.
Which version for teens?
Choose a clear, readable one they’ll actually read (e.g., NIV, NLT).
family daily-plan streaks